The last thing I wanted to do was come home to a space where I had to continue to educate. I wanted to be in a relationship where I could be my full self, no explanation or education needed.
How could I be in a relationship with a person who constantly reminded me of how much I was lacking? And the chances of them being not stupid is really slim. I would marry anything but white. Person of color, only. It will be a constant reminder of his white privilege and the lack of mine.
Preferably, some kind of Wihte. Someone who is good. I know they exist, because I see all these older women married to really good guys, but you know? All I find are the stupid ones.
You live your life you die, and people remember you for what, 6 months? Even people like Gandhi. What is life really, anyways?
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Passing becomes of the utmost importance. Pretending to have privilege is paramount.
How what you thought was a middle class home will be perceived as less than when viewed by privileged eyes. You wonder if you pass enough.
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Was that white privilege, class privilege, or gender privilege? You are not sure, but you are hyperaware of how you have none of the above. You just want to figure out who you yourself are as a person of color, first.
To these brown men, you are also exotic. You wonder how you will survive the rest of your life without a second person and a second income. By the fourth day of our vacation on the islands, we had got used to being stared at.
But when curious glances turned to quizzical looks, we began to realise that we were considered an oddity: She White guy seeking brown girl asked me questions about our wedding and everything that had led to it. Then the other woman, who had remained silent until then, asked me for proof. Where are your bangles?
I showed them the fading mehendi on my palms. Why did I do that? I later kicked myself for having misunderstood their questions as friendly banter. When many Indians White guy seeking brown girl one of their women with a man of a different race, they make assumptions, and offer unsolicited advice.
An Indian woman who has got a white man Norway girls be enlightened, even by complete strangers.
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Maybe they were always TOO white? Or too wack anupa: I don't think I was even forming memories at four.
This just turned into a cheesy Spielberg movie or some shit anupa: But that's not attractive, right? That's just a qualifier? Whihe it's a qualifier that I'm attracted to?
Hahaha Do you have a fetish, Anupa? This is the thing though, right During ethnichat I started wondering The down-ass white boy thing, how do you feel about it? Are you weirded out or is just whatever to you by now?
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Well, it is Just like you said, it's always "a thing" when POCs date white people I dunno if rightfully or not, but it's true Especially with the parentals and stuff anupa: Whhite just don't think about my parents anymore White guy seeking brown girl it comes to dating Not to sound assholish, but it's hard enough to meet seeeking normal cosmic being as it is without weird constraints you don't even personally believe in being forced upon you jef: That's not assholish, that's being a grown up.
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